So, at all cost, avoid teh type of messages mentioned above as well as sexual messages of any kind. The idea is to create a connection to her and every message is a step to this goal. This means concetrating on one girl instead of sending tons of messages to different girls and increasing your chances of success tremendously. This also means that you shoulde have profiles on different online dating sites not only because you can contact much more girls, but also because they are slightly different and different types of girls use differentv sites.
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Stop Being a Nice Guy! Things I'd cook, restaurants I'd take her out to, theme parks we'd go to, impromptu road trips we'd take, favors I'd like to pay. I really think the desire to provide for someone else is one of the major hallmarks of maturity, and it is one I look for in people I spend time with. And so by extension of that I guess I'm No one ever said this dating thing would make sense. Anyways, onward with my description" Women love this. It conveys everything that lets them know I can stand on my own two feet, am not looking for someone to "complete me", am a provider, and will be the one qualifying THEM for a cahnce to spend time with ME.
Sentences seven and eight allow me to outright tell someone to take ME out. I've yet to do this, but I'm interested in trying it out. Because of the way I've phrased those particular lines, I can't imagine it would make me lose standing with anyone. I am in fact, looking to be provided for as well as I provide. If a girl doesn't even have an idea of what she would like to do for me after contacting me, she's obviously not the girl for me. The bit where I mention my multiple lines of lineage has spurred a lot of responses where people tell me what their heritage is.
The lines where I talk about what I LOVE is outright monkyed in many responses as the girls try to align with my personality before we even meet. I get a lot of responses about "driving down to the keys at the drop of a hat".
Something I actually did once with a friend. These are the parts that stand out.
Everything else is taken into consideration and appreciated, but not outright mentioned as much. The pictures are a good mix. They show my interest and skill in photography, my adventerous side, and me just standing there looking like me on any given day.
I'd suggest you go for a healthy variety as well. That's all for now. I'll be around for whatever if there's responses. Fri Oct 26, 8: Thu Nov 01, 5: I'm between jobs right now and low on funds so I've been sarging online to make up for it You're right about the profile being an ongoing piece of work, it can always be improved Plus it portrays confidence.
Sun Nov 04, 4: I pretty much used your profile you wrote on here except for changing a word or two to fit me better and put it on plentyoffish. Sun Nov 11, 8: The link to your carigslist profile has expired, do you have a new one to reference?
Thu Nov 15, 9: Fri Nov 16, 3: On one of my profiles im testing out being picky Wed Apr 16, It's been over half a year since I've posted this thread and I decided to take a moment to revise and update it. I'm no permanent fixture on this board. It's been months since I've even logged in. I'm a guy who met a adorable redhead with two college degrees online and who has been in a great relationship for five months now filled with homemade cookies, great sex take THAT virginity!
I'm quite satisfied with that. Despite all this, it has been a regret of mine for a while that this compilation of advice and information I've left sitting around has been without certain methods and procedures I've picked up after my initial posting. I've known for a while that this thread is still being read, and I really dislike the idea of guys just like my former self beating their heads against a wall over stuff I've long figured out. The two main additions you'll find is an Order of Online Dating Operations, and a select few private messages I sent out on OKCupid that got responses.
Also, since I'm no longer posting on Craigslist, I've copied and pasted my old CL post onto my PlentyofFish profile so that it can be used an as example.
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You can view it here: In response to something in her profile You sound like you may be like minded. You enjoy writing stories, reading, and vulgarity. Do you have the same energy? Would you ever consider putting a live alligator in someone's bathroom for a practical joke? If you were watching a dinner show and the performers were asking for a volunteer would you sink back into your chair or would your thrust your hand up into the air and say "Me! You can so eat a spoonful of cinnamon In response to something in her profile I have done it. I will SHOW you. But perhaps an introduction is in order.
My name is Joseph. I'm a free spirited culture junky, and I think we might have a bit in common. The free spirited culture junky thing for starters. Plus, I'd like to see what you can do with a blank piece of paper and a pencil. Yes I am honest, cute I think you have a very endearing personal. You appear to be very easy going and a total culture junky like me.
Plus, you can count on a Naturas girl being pretty hip. But then I wonder Do you enjoy Winter Park's outside screening of classic movies? Or are these things you've yet to experience? Inquiring minds and all that A Most Dazzling profile It's pretty gosh darn succulent.
It's the green tea frappachino with blackberry syrup of OKcupid profiles. Originating from traditional methods and ideas and then warped into something cool, frosty, and refreshing.
A Most Dazzling profile It's pretty gosh darn succulent. An intelligent message with an intelligent profile will attract intelligent women. Usually they come a month here, a month there Pick-up artists, online seduction and dating tips The last few years have seen the rise of the male professional seducer, or PUA Pick-Up Artist online. At the end of this post I'll include a link to my Craigslist posting and tell you what segments have been well received or useful. I'm covering a lot of ground here. They have no incentive to.
Like a good book, you can pick up from the middle and it's just as good as starting from the beginning. So, do I ask for your aim screen name or do I follow you down a back alley and be all like "Hey, does this rag smell like chloroform to you?
Wed Apr 16, 2: Online Dating Order of Operations No matter how hard you try to make it into one, dating is and will forever be an art, not a science. There are no universal truths in dating. However, like most arts, there are rules of thumb. Even if there's an exception to these rules, the rules are still pretty damned useful by and large. And that's what The Online Order of Operations is.
It's what streamlined my approach to online dating and maximized the number of girls I met on any given week. It's a ladder of trust you provide for a girl who has never met you and build to fit inside a week, or even a day. Using it, I typically met women within a few hours of them sending me a instant message. Private Message or Two Since many times online encounters go straight to instant messaging this is an optional step and not always in play, but in cases it is prevalent it is very important.